Breaking Trauma Cycles: Benaiah Link on Therapy Myths, Representation, and Healing
At H.E.L.P. LLC, we often say that healing is an art form as much as it is a science. Sometimes, the most profound breakthroughs don’t happen in a sterile office, but on a stage where the complexities of the human spirit are laid bare. This intersection of performance and psychology is where Benaiah Link thrives.
Benaiah is not only a dedicated outpatient counselor on our team here at H.E.L.P. LLC, but also an award-winning playwright, director, and actor. His recent production, Trauma Attraction, which premiered at the historic ETA Creative Arts Foundation in Chicago this past May, is a testament to his mission: "Break the Chains."
In a recent conversation, Benaiah sat down to bridge the gap between his work on the stage and his work in the therapist’s chair. We want to share those insights with you, debunking some long-standing myths about therapy and highlighting why representation in mental health is a vital component of community healing.
Art as a Mirror: The Power of "Trauma Attraction"
When Benaiah wrote Trauma Attraction, he wasn't just looking to entertain; he was aiming to educate. The play, which earned him the 2025 A Taste of Theatre Playwright Award, explores how cycles of trauma can feel like a magnetic force, pulling individuals back into familiar patterns of pain.

The tagline, "Break the Chains," is more than a catchy phrase: it is a clinical objective. For many of our clients in the Chicago area, trauma isn't just an individual experience; it's a generational one. By bringing these stories to the stage, Benaiah allows us to see ourselves from a distance, making the heavy work of overcoming trauma feel a little more approachable.
Meeting You Where You Are: Debunking the Therapy "Couch" Myth
One of the biggest hurdles to seeking help is the narrative we’ve all seen in movies: a client lying on a stiff leather couch while a silent therapist scribbles in a notebook behind their head. Benaiah is quick to dismiss this stereotype.
"The goal is not to 'fix' people," Benaiah explains. "It’s about meeting clients exactly where they are."
In our practice, psychological services are a collaborative partnership. We don’t sit in the back of the room; we sit with you. We aren't here to project our own issues onto your story. Instead, our role is to provide you with the tools for self-sufficiency and self-awareness. We want to empower you to navigate your relationships and personal problems with a clear eyes and a steady heart.
The Human Side of the Clinician: "Clinical Temperature"
There is a persistent myth that therapists are robots: unfeeling observers who don't let life touch them. Benaiah challenges this by talking openly about the "clinical temperature."

As therapists, we are human beings. We have feelings, frustrations, and moments of sadness just like you do. However, Benaiah emphasizes that great therapists must monitor their own internal state to remain mentally present. This is what we call managing countertransference: the awareness of when a counselor's own needs or history might be creeping into the session. By staying aware of our "temperature," we ensure that the focus remains entirely on your needs and your growth.
Why Representation Matters in Chicago
The interviewers who spoke with Benaiah highlighted a profound point: seeing an African American male therapist is still a relatively rare experience for many in our community. Historically, representation in the mental health field has been sparse, particularly for Black and Brown men.
At H.E.L.P. LLC, we believe that culturally responsive care is not a luxury; it is a necessity. When you walk into a room and see someone who understands your cultural shorthand, who knows the weight of systemic challenges without you having to explain them, a layer of defense naturally drops. This "unspoken level of comfort" allows the real work of healing to begin much sooner.
Benaiah’s presence as both a therapist and a public artist serves as a powerful role model for the next generation. It shows that mental health is a field where our voices and our experiences are not only welcomed but essential.
Moving Beyond the Spotlight
The theater lights eventually go down, but the work of healing continues in our offices every day. Whether through a stage play like Trauma Attraction or a one-on-one session at our Chicago practice, the objective remains the same: helping you thrive.

We aim to contribute favorably to the lives of our clients by providing holistic care for the mind, body, and soul. If you’ve felt hesitant about therapy because of the myths you’ve seen on TV, or if you’ve been looking for a place that understands your unique cultural background, we are here for you.
Each and every person deserves a space where they feel seen, heard, and respected. We invite you to explore our team of professionals and see how we can partner with you to break the chains in your own life.
Special thanks to our own Clinical Director, DeSonta Tillman, MA, MBA, LCPC, and co-host and podcast interviewer, TaKia Fleming-Pillow, MA, LPC, for facilitating this powerful conversation.
We also invite you to watch the full 7-minute podcast interview with Benaiah Link here.
Ready to Start Your Journey?
You don't have to navigate your trauma alone. Whether you are looking for individual counseling, family therapy, or psychological consultation, our team at H.E.L.P. LLC is ready to meet you where you are.
Visit us at help-llc.org to learn more about our services or to book a session with clinicians like Benaiah Link.

